links are displaying only on user/* pages

Hello,
I am sorry if this should not be posted here, but i am not so sure.

I have a site runing ubercart marketplace, where users act as selling and can upload products.
I am using the menu token module to have a custom mene for sellers so they can easily navigate to their admin pages.
so i have configured these links:

my products - user/[user-id]/selling/view
orders - user/[user-id]/selling/fulfill
statistics - user/[user-id]/selling

now, as the "seller" role I am seeing all 3 links only on pages such as sitename.com/user/* if I navigate to the front page, I see only the "my products" link.
as admin, I am seeing all the links always so i have looked into permissions and managed to understand that by enabling the "administer sellers" to the "seller" role, when loggin in as "seller" i see all 3 links always, but that is obviously a permission I can not grant to the "seller"

maybe someone can help me understand how to sort this out, would be much appreciated :)
if this needs to be posted on the ubercart marketplace issues page, please let me know and sorry for that.
Thanks!