Darn, its ALMOST works

Thanks, Robert for this great module. In admin mode it works like a charm, but in anonymous user mode, the main page switches once, and does not switch back to the base language (EN). Also, when I click the 3rd. language, it stays in the language I first selected.
It seems to have to do with /node, because if I create a page and its 2 translations the module works fine too (creating node/1, node/2 and node/3) But I go back to the main page, (node) and I'm back to where I started from.
I'm terribly sorry if this topic has already been addressed, but I have reinstalled Drupal, cleaned out the DB, been sifting through topics, reading install instructions for hours and the problem stays the same. I'm sure I'm doing something simple, simply wrong, but I'm about to give up and go with Yoomla/Mambo - which are not really up to par to Drupal where user management is concerned.
Why, o why is this sooooooooooooooooo simple in Gallery2, and so difficult in Drupal?

THX beforehand for your help

Gerard