Comment module

I would like authenticated users to make comments and have access/edit their own comments when they log off and log back in. I have checked the post comments without approval checkbox. This is ok however other authenticated users can view comments made by other authenticated users. I then unchecked the post comments without approval checkbox and checked the post comments only check box. Comments are now queued until approved by the administrator but individual authenticated users cannot access nor edit their own comments that have been queud. The idea is to allow individual access to their own comments that have been queued. Any solutions out their