How can I show my relation node in Views?

Hi!
I have an problem it driving me crazy;;

Here is example!

content-type 1
person 1 made node 1
person 2 made node 2

content-type 2
person 3 made node 3 has node reference of node 1
person 4 made node 4 has node reference of node 2

I want to show only node 3 to person 1 and node 4 to person 2 when they are log in.
because these people made node that linked node each contents 3,4

How can I make a views that linked(referenced) other content by logged in user?