mobile, handheld, drupal friendly site wanted...

I would great appreciate a bit of guidance here. I would like to create a handheld friendly version of my site. That is, pda's, mobile phones etc. and I have looked far and wide and...come up empty handed. Here is my problem. Yes, there are mobile themes on drupal...but they have there own issues. Take the mobi loader module and accompanying mobi theme. It's a great idea...but you need a .mobi domain. I don't have this and don't want to force my users to try and figure out that I have one...even if I did. Also when tested here at http://mr.dev.mobi/ it's not %100. Then there is the accessibility module. When skiffie.com, the site of this module's creator is tested...it's %100 and does everything automatically...without the need of the .mobi domain. But, I have tried to contact the author repeatedly on how everything works...to no avail. The css sheets are empty, so I have to style them. No problem except I have no idea on how to style for mobile devices. Also, I would have to use the web theme that came with it...a watered down bluemarine. I don't want to...I already use garland and do not want to change. Then...there is the mobile.theme. Actually, I have no idea how to use it because it lacks a README file. As a theme itself, it works. But, must I use this as a default theme or can I just enable it and it will override my main theme when a mobile device makes a page request for my site. I don't know...as I said it without a README file. The Mobit theme switcher thing in the themes section is an interesting thing. It allows users to choose a mobile theme once they've logged in and figured out that you offer this. But; what if they try to access your site with a mobile device FIRST. Then they get a mess and move on not knowing they could log in with a computer and format things for their mobile viewing pleasure. Also...small thing...it lacks the .info file. Finally, I've read you can do some css magic and format everything with ease use some header hocus pocus. How? Everyone saysy it's possible...noone says how. Help.

cheers,

wim