Multiple menu items uncertainty

I have two menu items, under different menus, that both point to the same node:

• One of the two menu items is the 'standard' menu item for the node. By 'standard' I mean that it is tied to the node so that it is shown in the form where editing of the node occurs.
• The second menu item is created manually in the menu editor.

Since I have two menu items pointing to the same node it seems like Local Menu becomes unsure which menu it should show and therefor shows none.

I propose two different solutions:

1. Always choosing a node's standard menu items at first (easiest implementation I guess).
2. Add an administration interface where a list of in which order menus should be checked.

Comment?

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