Change Redirect after Ajax Remove Buddy

I implemented a profile screen that has the ajax popup for removing a buddy. When I remove the buddy the screen is redirected to the sites home page. Is there a way to change the destination of the redirect without modifying the module's code?

The redirect is being issued from /user_relationships/user_relationships_ui/user_relationships_ui.forms.inc in the ajax handler:

function user_relationships_ui_remove_ajax($account, $relationship) {
  //382668 makes sure a valid relationship id was supplied
  if (!$relationship->rid) {
    if (isset($_GET['ajax'])) {
      die();
    }
    drupal_goto();
  }
  $form = drupal_get_form('user_relationships_ui_remove', $account, $relationship);
  if (isset($_GET['ajax'])) {
    die($form);
  }
  return $form;
}

I noticed that drupal_goto is being called. From api.drupal.org , "you may override that behavior by setting a destination in either the $_REQUEST-array (i.e. by using the query string of an URI) or the $_REQUEST['edit']-array (i.e. by using a hidden form field). This is used to direct the user back to the proper page after completing a form."

Can this be done in this instance, if so how? Is there an alternative approach?