replacing the profile module

I am using the node profile module and suite of modules to completely replace the profile module. I suppose i ned a bit more help than the documentation provides...can you give me some more information?

So far, I have installed usernode, nodeprofile, nodefamily, and viewsfusion. I have a usernode for each user. I have created 1 CCK content that is labeled as a nodeprofile (info) and limited to 1 node of its type. I have a second CCK type (addresses) that is a child of the main nodeprofile (info) and this one is limited to 5 nodes of its type.

I have put in the $children = nodefamily_relation_load($nid); into the top of my xxxx-content_node.tpl.php override file and am able to get the propper fields to print to the node.

I also have overriden the userpage to goto my usernode with all the code included with the template.php in the package. this works by pointing everything that used to goto the user page to the usernode (which is good)

Here are my questions:
can i theme the usernode to display the actual usernodes and children instead of the liks to these? (and if so, what is the name of the theme override file)

With multiple types of addresses in my child node, if i goto nodefamily/NODE_TYPE then it goes to one node, instead of a list of the nodes - is there a way to change this? or should i create a view that does this for me?

i am sure i will have more questions, as this is a superb addition to drupal, and i am trying to really push its limits!

thanks for all of your hard work and success!

jason