Option to NOT group lightbox videos into a slideshow when displaying in a view

in theme_emvideo_modal_generic(), the following line forces all videos rendered on a page to appear in the same lightbox slideshow:

  if ($options['modal'] == 'lightbox2') {
    $attributes['attributes']['rel'] = 'lightframe[videos|width:'. ($width + 16) .'; height:'. ($height + 16) .';]';
  }

namely, "lightframe[videos" forces the all the lightbox modals into the same grouping, even though the slides might belong to different nodes.

I debated filing this as a bug report, but maybe other people are happy with this behavior?
Anyway, I think emvideo should mimic lightbox2's "CCK display settings > Select Imagefield grouping in Views" setting, that allows admins to decide whether and how to group videos: e.g. no grouping, group by field name, group by node id, or some combination of those.