Old Aegir install. https://mysite:9166/socket.io/socket.io.js net::ERR_CONNECTION_REFUSED

https://mysite.com:9166/socket.io/socket.io.js net::ERR_CONNECTION_REFUSED

I enabled ssl on my server.
I can get to https://mysite.com and https://myserver.com
I setup my nodejs.config.js file (see below)
I need to have nodejs delivered over ssl.
No matter what I used for host, I get the same error message.
Now to be clear, I do get '{"error":"Invalid service key."}' at https://mysite.com/nodejs/message like I should

backendSettings = {
       "scheme":"https",  
//    "scheme":"http",  
//    "host":"127.0.0.1",  <- doesn't work
       "host":"192.xxx.xxx.xxx",  <- select IP address associated with ssl cert for server
//    "host":"myserver.com", <- doens't work
//    "host":"localhost",  <- doesn't work
    "port":9166,
    "sslKeyPath":"/path/openssl.key", <- server key
    "sslCertPath":"/path/openssl.crt",  <- server cert
    "sslCAPath":"",
    "resource":"/socket.io",
    "publishUrl":"publish",
    "serviceKey":"somerandomstuff",
    "backend":{
//	"port":80, <- not correct
	"port":443, <- specify ssl port
	"host":"mysite.com",
	"scheme": 'https',
	"messagePath":"/nodejs/message"},
    "clientsCanWriteToChannels":true,
    "clientsCanWriteToClients":true,
    "extensions":["drupalchat_nodejs.server.extension.js"],
    "debug":true,
    "transports":["websocket",
		  "flashsocket",
		  "htmlfile",
		  "xhr-polling",
		  "jsonp-polling"],
    "jsMinification":true,
    "jsEtag":true,
    "logLevel":1};