I have Drupal installed on www1.mydomain.com and ejabberd installed on chat.mydomain.com. I would like to setup up this entire thing so that ejabberd and drupal are "syncing" the users back and forth so that a Drupal user can login to ejabberd, which I believe this module can do, right?

I have installed and enabled all of the modules of the XMPP Framework but I can't get it to sync. I have no idea if I even have everything setup properly. I am not using LDAP or anything extra for my user management, just have Drupal running of MySQL. Users will be using a Jabber client like Pidgin to connect to the chat.mydomain.com server, so I will not be using the web Jabber client for Drupal. The domain I would like to use for my users is mydomain.com if possible.

Configurations for XMPP Framework:
User Options
XMPP Server Domain: mydomain.com
Provision XMPP for Drupal Users is Checked

Show XMPP User Password Field, Show XMPP User Resource Field and Store Login password as XMPP Password are unchecked.

XMPP API
XMPP Server: chat.mydomain.com
XMPP Port 5222
Admin JID - admin@mydomain.com
Admin Password - thepassword
Admin JID Server: mydomain.com

Thanks!